Do you want to use your lifeline? Who would you like to call? At the beginning of our marriage, we experience arguments, frustration, and discontent with each other. Wanting to keep our problems private, we only fought harder and was desperate for a way out. That’s when we reached out to our beloved pastor, […]
5 Ways To Make Time For Your Priorities
We have been asked many times; how do we keep up with our home; serving in our church; working, raising a family, and time for each other? WOW just that sentence alone is a lot. By the grace of God, we are able manage all He has called us to do; without neglecting what […]
Faking The Funk
; We all do it…fake the funk; at work, around friends, around family even at church. We all put on a front that everything is ok when, in reality, it’s not! If we’re going to keep it real, most of us are so bad at frontin’ like everything’s ok. The people around us can […]
Living To Pay Bills
How do we stop living to pay bills? This is a question we asked ourselves several years ago. We went from making more than enough to barely getting by. And it was in that very moment, we earnestly sought God to help us stop living to pay bills. One morning, André had a revelation. […]
Together In Our Separateness
It’s ironic how we get tired of being single, longing for that special relationship. Then we get married and before we know it, we find ourselves fighting for alone time. Early on in our marriage when things weren’t going so well, we desired more and more alone time. Honestly speaking, it seemed that we […]
Family Time On A Dime
We never have any money to do anything. Does that sound familiar? We took that out of our vocabulary a few years ago. It’s true that you will definitely have what you say, so if you keep saying it, you just might find yourself in that position. In a previous blog, Our Daily Bills, we […]
Choosing To Love
Why do I always have to be the one to always apologize and be the bigger person? I think I said that way too many times, until my mentor corrected me and said it’s not about being the bigger person; it’s about choosing to walk in love because love never fails! When I began to […]
You Matter
I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings, but I’m not sorry for what I said. Sound familiar? Most relationships that experience arguments, misunderstandings, or disagreements, typically start out small. Then somehow, they turn into huge arguments because often times we listen to respond, but not to understand. We learned this early on in our marriage […]