5 Ways To Give As A Family

Tis the season to be jolly, merry and down-right busy! What a wonderful opportunity to turn that around by purposing to bring the family together to be a blessing towards others.Here are 5 ways your family can focus on giving during the holidays.

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Tis the season to be jolly, merry and down-right busy! What a wonderful opportunity to turn that around by purposing to bring the family together to be a blessing towards others.Here are 5 ways your family can focus on giving during the holidays.


Tis the season to be jolly, merry and down-right busy!

What a wonderful opportunity to turn that around by purposing to bring the family together to be a blessing towards others.

During times of hardship, we had to get creative with not just gift giving, but with family time and outings. Christmas, however, was one of the most rewarding times for us because we found ways to bless others.

We’ve shared before there were two movies that have impacted us a family which were: The Ultimate Gift and The Ultimate Life.

Both movies influenced our level of giving and made us more sensitive to whom we should give. The impact of the movies affected our children as well, which made it easier to teach them the value of giving especially during Christmas.

When money is tight, it’s really easy to get caught up in the woe is me syndrome. With I don’t have money to give my kids a good Christmas, I don’t have money to do anything for me, forget gifts for others I’m trying to get gifts for myself and my kids.

When we, as a family, turned our focus to bless others in ways that were within our means, God multiplied our resources and added back to us. Even in times of financial struggle, we went out of our way as a family and helped others have a Merry Christmas. In return, we had some of the “best Christmases.” And that’s a direct quote from our children.



Here are a few creative ways we have come up with as a family to bless others, for any occasion nut just Christmas.


1. Invite someone over for dinner.

This is one of the easiest things to do especially if you are already cooking dinner for yourself. Pay attention to those who are single, just lost a love one, lost their job, or someone who lives near you with no immediate family. Trust us, they will be blessed tremendously to sit around a kitchen table enjoying a good meal with friends.


2. Babysit

This may not sound like fun, but this will literally cost you nothing but time. The biggest challenge for a couple is a reliable and inexpensive baby sitter. Having a close friend or family member volunteer to babysit for free, is just as valuable, if not more, than any gift you can purchase.


3. Invite a family over for a game night and hot chocolate.

There were times we wanted to bless an entire family and all we could afford was hot chocolate. So we invited the family over to play a game and made everyone a cup of hot chocolate. The night was memorable for everyone!

However, it wasn’t because of the hot chocolate. It was because we laughed and had a great time while being competitive. And the best part; it didn’t cost us anything to have a great time! Of course we documented the evening in The Game Ledger!  That way our bragging rights are recorded. You know, in case there’s a dispute later about who won! Just saying…


4. Volunteer to serve as a family in the community.

We recently shared how our family found such gratitude in serving others as a lifestyle. It was first during the holiday season when we started to volunteer in various community outreaches. Our kids left with stories of gratitude and how blessed they were to serve others. One of our favorite outreaches was putting together reindeer candy canes for children who were in Child Haven (Child Protective Service Program) one Christmas.

5. Invite someone to your church’s Christmas Service.

During Christmas, people are the most receptive to receiving gifts, whether they believe in the message of Christ or not. Unfortunately, on the contrary, some people are more depressed because they have no family, feel alone, or have no sense of hope. Invite someone looking for hope to a Christmas service, gives them the opportunity for their heart to be restored and overwhelmed with the presence of God through song, or an encouraging word. Invite someone who could use a glimpse of hope. That just may be what they need, and it would cost nothing but the courage to invite them.

When we began to do these things, we saw blessings in unusual ways. So much so we were able to bless our own children with a great Christmas. Not to mention, we had extra finances to bless families in a tangible way to meet a need.

One of the scriptures we stand on as a family is:

“And [God] Who provides seed for the sower and bread for eating will also provide and multiply your [resources for] sowing and increase the fruits of your righteousness [which manifests itself in active goodness, kindness, and charity].”
~ 2 Corinthians 9:10 (AMPC)

We have come to trust God whole heartily with our finances, our giving, and our receiving. As a result, we have and continue to see God provide over and over again.

No matter where you find yourself in this season, purpose as a family to seek God as to how He wants to use your family to bless others and restore hope in someone’s life. This experience as a family will help create a generation of givers for God’s glory.

Where there’s a willingness to give, God always creates a way.

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~ André and Timberley Gray


  1. Leslie says:

    Timberly, thank you for these great ways to bless others! I need to work on #1 and #3. I always wait for my house to be in better shape before having company. Just last night I was thinking about how that has caused me to miss out on some ways I could have been making room for relationships and for blessing others. Thank you for sharing!

    • Timberley Timberley says:

      What great reflection Leslie! It’s amazing what God does when we fellowship with one another. Now that your spirit is convicted to change that, just watch how God will bring the opportunities. Thank you for reading! ~ Blessings

  2. Anonymous says:

    All are great ways to incorporate giving back to others and building relationships too! Your kids will never forget those moments of joy!! I actually use #1 and #3 to make myself keep the house clean!!! Haha! Unfortunately, that’s the way I have to do it! I want the clean house, but I want to fellowship with others and be hospitable first. So it promotes a group effort from the family to get the house in order! Love it!

    • Timberley Timberley says:

      That’s great!Whatever it takes to be hospitable, it’s a win-win for everyone. Thank you for stopping by to read! ~ Blessings

  3. Jessica says:

    These are great ideas! Especially for families who want to give but are not in a position to contribute financially.

    • Timberley Timberley says:

      Hi Jessica, thanks for stopping by! I couldn’t agree with you more. Every family has something to give and when our hearts are committed to giving, God will always make a way! ~ Blessings

  4. Anonymous says:

    I love these ideas and this post! I especially love #3. I can become so overly focused on “entertaining” and before I know it we’ve spent a fortune on making the perfect dinner and dessert, etc… What a fabulous idea to just invite them to hot chocolate and games!

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